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Eye Gazing: The Surprising Power of Prolonged Eye Contact, Based On Science

People hardly ever look into each other’s eyes (except maybe during love-making). — Years ago, during my initial introduction to tantra, I recall a specific exercise that left a lasting impression on me. I sat face to face with my partner, John, our hands resting on our laps while gazing into each other’s eyes for an uninterrupted thirty minutes. A lot happens during…

Relationships

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Eye Gazing: The Surprising Power of Prolonged Eye Contact, Based On Science
Eye Gazing: The Surprising Power of Prolonged Eye Contact, Based On Science
Relationships

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Sexography

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Sexless Japan Has Ruined My Youth

And it is destructing a whole Nation — I have countless stories about Japan, but this one is the story that ‘damaged’ me the most. It was 11:00 pm on a Friday night when I came back home. Working in corporate Japan didn’t leave much space for personal time and enjoyment. I cooked a light meal, a bowl…

Society

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Sexless Japan Has Ruined My Youth
Sexless Japan Has Ruined My Youth
Society

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The Taoist Online

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A Single Cup of Ayahuasca Was Enough to Transform My Life

My personal story about Ayahuasca and how it changed my life for the worst and the better — In 2018, I found myself in the mountains of Ecuador in a school of tantra and shamanism drinking Ayahuasca for the first time and completely transformed within six hours. One cup was enough to help me heal parts of myself that needed attention and to create a clear life plan…

Ayahuasca

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A Single Cup of Ayahuasca Was Enough to Transform My Life
A Single Cup of Ayahuasca Was Enough to Transform My Life
Ayahuasca

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Sexography

·5 days ago

In Japan, Men Are Opting for a Life Without Sex And There is a Word for That

Who are the herbivore men? — The first time I heard about the expression “herbivore men,” I had a good laugh. Then, I dated two of them, and my laughter turned into tears. When you think of the word “herbivore”, you usually think of animals that eat plants, right? Well, when we use it to talk…

Relationships

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In Japan, Men Are Opting for a Life Without Sex And There is a Word for That
In Japan, Men Are Opting for a Life Without Sex And There is a Word for That
Relationships

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SEX Letters

·Dec 1

10 Questions to Ask on a First Date

These simple questions will allow for a greater connection — In 2024, I’ve set a goal to go on a first date once every two weeks. Yeah, you heard me right! Next year is the year I want to meet someone after nearly three years of being single. While I hate “duty dating,” I know it’s not by sitting on…

Dating

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10 Questions to Ask on a First Date
10 Questions to Ask on a First Date
Dating

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The Narrative Arc

·Nov 29

How I Found Myself Homeless

I didn’t expect life to take the turn it did — I pushed open a rusty, creaky door, knowing that once I’d set foot on the other side, my honor and self-image would never be the same again. Still, I was hungry, and this was the only place I could be sure of finding a hot meal. Never for a moment…

Life Lessons

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How I Found Myself Homeless
How I Found Myself Homeless
Life Lessons

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Sexography

·Nov 29

Dating a Rich Man Taught Me an Important Lesson

Control, power, and BDSM — I met Anthony in Bali. He was a friend of my roommates, and I connected well with him. We would hang out and talk for hours about our lives and our dreams. After three months of knowing each other, he asked me to become his girlfriend, which was a requirement…

Relationships

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Dating a Rich Man Taught Me an Important Lesson
Dating a Rich Man Taught Me an Important Lesson
Relationships

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The Taoist Online

·Nov 28

Your Life Purpose is Simpler Than You Think

A personal story of how I discovered my life purpose and initiated a global movement — It was a warm summer in August 2022 and I was walking in Paris somewhere along the Seine River with my friend Robert, enjoying the bit of sunlight left before sunset. Lost in our conversation, we talked about the trivial things of life, our hopes, and the why of our…

This Happened To Me

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Your Life Purpose is Simpler Than You Think
Your Life Purpose is Simpler Than You Think
This Happened To Me

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SEX Letters

·Nov 28

How To Successfully Win A Girl's Heart And Make Her Want You More

Three keys: patience, reassurance and maturity!! — Let me tell you the story of how this man successfully won me over! By the end, you will understand the secrets of winning a girl’s heart and body, while also gaining insights into my work as a tantra coach. Ready? Go. I received a text message from Arturo, the…

Dating

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How To Successfully Win A Girl's Heart And Make Her Want You More
How To Successfully Win A Girl's Heart And Make Her Want You More
Dating

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Sexography

·Nov 25

To All The Women Who Are Sexually Rejected by Their Men

I’ve been in your shoes more than once. — I know it hurts. It hurts when what you desire the most is closeness and intimacy with the man you love, and he’s not offering you that. Instead, he turns his back on you at night and barely looks at you during the day. When he looks at you, he…

Women

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To All The Women Who Are Sexually Rejected by Their Men
To All The Women Who Are Sexually Rejected by Their Men
Women

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Hakima T A N T R I K A

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Former French Diplomat in Japan turned Relationship & Intimacy Coach and Tantra Teacher | Learn more: www.hakimatantrika.com

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